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Did the person who died own a property?
Including any property in their name, even if jointly owned.
Were there savings, investments, or other assets?
Bank accounts, shares, pensions, or valuables above a few thousand pounds.
Was there a will?
Even if you're not sure where it is, knowing one exists can change the process.
This can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to figure it out alone. A probate specialist can walk you through the next steps — no obligation, no pressure.
That's one less thing to worry about. If anything changes or you'd like a quick confirmation, a specialist can put your mind at rest.
Many families don't have all the information straight away — that's completely normal. A quick chat with a specialist can help you understand what applies to your situation.
What the probate process looks like
Apply for Grant of Probate
Collect assets & close accounts
Pay debts & tax
Distribute the estate
A specialist handles all of this for you.
Trusted by thousands of families across the UK
You probably don't need to pay for the funeral yourself
The estate will likely go through probate, which means the funeral costs can be paid from the estate. You need a probate specialist to make this happen.
Sail Probate · Fixed fees, nothing upfront
Probate might not be needed
That means the funeral costs probably can't be covered this way. But every situation is different — a quick chat can confirm.
We need a bit more info
Don't worry — lots of people aren't sure at this stage. A quick chat can work out whether the funeral costs can be covered.
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John Gray and Co Funeral Directors was founded in 1960.
Our dedicated teams at our Bangor and Holywood funeral homes are committed to creating tailored funerals that reflect the unique life of your loved one.
We can be contacted 24 hours a day, by telephone, and are here to discuss your needs. Or if you prefer, we can visit your home to discuss funeral arrangements’
"David sourced a videographer which accommodated family members in other countries, dealt with a third party on my behalf, and very subtly gave me my cues on when to act during the service and at the graveside. I felt very supported during my time with John Gray & Co."
— S M (about David)
"My family cried, smiled and laughed together with Mike. On the day, we really were able to celebrate our Mum's life as we made our final farewells. Mike was professional and efficient while also showing empathy, dignity, respect and warmth."
— Diane Carson (about Mike)
"The way Anne Marie gently guided my mum through each step made a really difficult time much easier to bear. Everything was carried out with such dignity and thoughtfulness that we never had to worry about a thing - we were simply able to focus on saying goodbye."
— Phil McClure (about Anne Marie)
"Mike went above and beyond to ensure we were able to say goodbye to Dad in the way we wanted to. At each and every stage of a daunting process we felt entirely informed, supported, and confident that Dad and we were in good, professional hands. We are profoundly grateful."
— Emilie Halligan (about Mike)
"Mike Smith provided such an exceptional service that I feel he requires a special mention. Quietly steering us through an unfamiliar journey, and all the time keeping in contact in case we had any concerns or worries. His dignified approach made us feel so confident that everything would be ok on the day….and it was. Mum would have been proud."
— Richard Lawson (about Mike Smith)
"Anne-Marie took a huge amount of time, even after normal working hours, to advise me on the logistics of Dad's funeral service. All my, many, questions were always answered accurately and quickly. Their professionalism, kindness and understanding absolutely helped me through the most difficult time of my life and I am profoundly grateful to them."
— Richard Hazard (about Anne-Marie)
richard hazard
a month ago
I genuinely cannot express how much I appreciated the support and professionalism from John Gray and Co when my beloved late-father recently passed. From the initial phone call to the days after Dad was laid to rest I am so profoundly grateful for the help and advice- particularly from Anne-Marie and Paul who I dealt with most. Dad was of a slightly different Faith to me, and it struck me as so kind that Anne-Marie took a huge amount of time, even after normal working hours, to advise me on the logistics of Dad's funeral service as it would of course be slightly different to what I would have known. All my, many, questions were always answered accurately and quickly; and I was kept fully aware at all times of updates right from Dad being received by John Gray staff to being laid to rest. It is a very tight line to walk between professionalism and over-familiarity, but John Gray walked it perfectly. Of course a phone call to any funeral director is a call no-one wants to make, but I would have absolutely zero reservations in recommending John Gray and Co to anyone when the sad time comes. Their professionalism, kindness and understanding absolutely helped me through the most difficult time of my life and I am profoundly grateful to them
Alex Clifford
2 months ago
I would like to thank Anne Marie and team for looking after myself and my brother while dealing with the recent loss of our father. Their thoughtfulness and support was amazing. The care they took looking after my mother in 2024 and then my father recently. We felt truly supported and they worked with us to make sure both my mother and fathers wishes were met. They guided us when we weren't really sure what do. They are an amazing team. The respect they give you is above and beyond.
Phil McClure
4 months ago
We can’t thank Anne Marie, Liam and the whole team enough for their care and support around my dad’s funeral. From the very beginning, Anne Marie was kind, patient and incredibly organised, and the way she gently guided my mum through each step made a really difficult time much easier to bear. On the day of the funeral, Liam and his team were calm, respectful and highly professional. Everything was carried out with such dignity and thoughtfulness that we never had to worry about a thing - we were simply able to focus on saying goodbye. We are deeply grateful for their compassion and the exceptional service they provided, and wouldn’t hesitate to recommend them.
Danielle
5 months ago
Everything was fantastic, detailed and nothing too difficult. With a large family and lots of visitors in and out, the team were amazing and always welcome. Thank you particularly to Anne-Marie who had the upmost patience, kindness and provided us with undivided attention.
David Shivers
6 months ago
Ann-Marie was great in dealing with what is our first direct death in the family giving compassionate support and valuable advice. Paul was very professional and extremely helpful in making sure the funnel went according to plan. Both are to be highly praised on their empathy and valuable advice, making a difficult experience more bearable. Our thanks to both and indeed the rest of the team who were also consummate professionals.
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Question of 3
Did the person who died own a property?
Including any property in their name, even if jointly owned.
Were there savings, investments, or other assets?
Bank accounts, shares, pensions, or valuables above a few thousand pounds.
Was there a will?
Even if you're not sure where it is, knowing one exists can change the process.
This can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to figure it out alone. A probate specialist can walk you through the next steps — no obligation, no pressure.
That's one less thing to worry about. If anything changes or you'd like a quick confirmation, a specialist can put your mind at rest.
Many families don't have all the information straight away — that's completely normal. A quick chat with a specialist can help you understand what applies to your situation.
What the probate process looks like
Apply for Grant of Probate
Collect assets & close accounts
Pay debts & tax
Distribute the estate
A specialist handles all of this for you.
Trusted by thousands of families across the UK
You probably don't need to pay for the funeral yourself
The estate will likely go through probate, which means the funeral costs can be paid from the estate. You need a probate specialist to make this happen.
Sail Probate · Fixed fees, nothing upfront
Probate might not be needed
That means the funeral costs probably can't be covered this way. But every situation is different — a quick chat can confirm.
We need a bit more info
Don't worry — lots of people aren't sure at this stage. A quick chat can work out whether the funeral costs can be covered.
Want to talk it through?
Free, no obligation.
Want to check with a specialist?
Free, no obligation.
Want to find out for sure?
Free, no obligation.
Sail Probate · Trusted by thousands of families
A specialist will call you soon
Free, no-obligation advice from Sail Probate
What happens next
Request received
Just now
A specialist reviews your details
Within 1 hour
You'll receive a call
Within 24 hours
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
Result saved
If you need help later, call Sail Probate free:
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
We'll give you a call
A Sail Probate specialist will talk you through everything and answer any questions.
Interested in: We handle everything (£6,000)
Interested in: Just the probate application (£1,000)
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
No problem
If you'd like to talk about probate or funeral costs, call Sail Probate free:
Lines open now Lines open Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · 0808 196 0258
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